Wednesday, December 7, 2011
why are we so mean?
It disgusts me how most people are the opposite. When someone is having a weak moment or is totally vulnerable, people will notice - and instead of helping them out, they pounce on their opportunity to destroy the person. It is awful, and I have seen it happen way too many times.
Jealous is a huge problem these days.
Terrible, right? It happens though, a lot.
And illogical. What me and Haley (well, mostly Haley) concluded was that this is the complete opposite of what should happen. When you are jealous of someone you will OBVIOUSLY feel those feelings of inferiority. And yeah, those feelings friggen suck. That is why most people start bullying. However, wouldn't it make more sense to spend time getting to know that person - seeing what they do to get those characteristics or things you are jealous of?
I don't know...
I am just really tired of seeing so much hate towards good people just because they have things and characteristics that they probably worked their asses off to get. Jealousy is something people will never get rid of, it is an emotion that is here to stay. However, handling your jealousy at a mature level is something I think A LOT of people need to learn .. because bringing someone down won't get you where you want to go.